Mandy has been enjoying her surrogacy and everything that comes with it, including this adorable gender reveal! At the recent anatomy scan appointment, she and her Intended Parents found out they were having a boy! Of course, Mandy had both colors of paint just in case! Moments like this are truly beautiful, especially in Surrogacy. Congratulations!!
Surrogate Mom, Angela, would video connect with her Intended Parents during appointments so they could see their baby moving around and listen to the heartbeat. That little flutter on the ultrasound screen is now a soft squirming bundle of joy in her arms. Watching the dream of parenthood become a reality, right in front of your eyes, is beyond breathtaking!
What a way to start the week but with a baby entering this world and making a family whole! Although we’ve said it before, it is truly a miracle to see the moment “Intended” Parents become New Parents. What’s even better?? Seeing Parents become Grandparents! What an amazing delivery we were a part of today, watching generations grow right in front of us. May the rest of the week be just as beautiful!
Amanda was so perfectly matched with her Couple and the distance of half the world away didn’t affect the true bond they created, shared and we are sure will maintain. The beauty of this journey was not only to witness the effect a new little one can have on her parents’ face but also the love that was so visible on her grandparents’ loving eyes every time they not only saw her but just spoke about her! From the beginning, Daddy was sure he would have a girl and her name would be a Disney Princess. And he was right!! The was absolutely a Disney themed labor of love that came to fruition on February 25, 2019, in the morning hours. The sweet princess weighed a perfectly petite 7lb 14oz!!
One week ago we had two deliveries…just hours apart! That’s right, Angela and Tonya delivered beautiful, healthy baby girls on Valentine’s day. Angela delivered in Apple Valley and Tonya delivered in Upland, amidst a crazy rainstorm to boot! We are so thankful to our staff for dividing and conquering in order to be present for these girls.
One week later, everyone is recovering well and the new parents are settling into their new roles. Such an honor to be a part of something so magnificent! Congratulations to both of you, and to the New Parents.
Surrogate Mom, Melissa, has been matched and is moving on to her medical clearance appointment. This is the next step in her journey to helping her couple become parents. We are delighted to be on this journey with them and can’t wait to see Melissa make dreams come true.
Angela proved a lot of things. That language is not a barrier unless you allow it to be. Distance is not an issue, video calls can be done for everything! It is easy to make friends with your surrogate mommy peers. And that you can plan a cross-country move in the last month of pregnancy and make the move only weeks after having a C-Section! Crazy but true!
Angela’s surrogate pregnancy journey ended on Valentine’s Day, February 14, 2019, when a sweet baby was born giving Angela’s Couple the answer to their many prayers over the years.
This month’s Group fell on Valentine’s week! There is always love in the air but it felt extra special this time. Maybe it was the pink sweaters, red scarves, or the chocolate hearts we devoured! Getting together with our Surrogates each month is so special to us especially when we are able to witness the tremendous and unique bonds they have built for one another. As we approach the birth of 3 babies in the next 10 days, so many well wishes and prayers were given for safe deliveries and healthy babies. Stay tuned for some amazing stories in the coming weeks!
As far as goals go, Tonya set one that would literally affect the world. It is amazing what the power of love can encourage a person to do. February 14, 2019, will forever be a memorable day not only for St. Valentine’s Day, but the day that Tonya changed the world by giving life to a beautiful and perfect little girl weighing 7lb 2oz. Congratulations Tonya!!!!
Ear plugs – sounds funny but we all know sleep is crucial to your recovery and that’s hard to do with the beeping machines and neighboring cries. Pack them now and thank me later!
You will have time to shower. Unlike when you delivered your own baby and every second was spent coddling, nursing, or just staring at your magical being; this time you’ll have time for YOU as the parents tend to their newborn. Bring any shower essentials, and heck bring your makeup bag while you’re at it, I can promise you there will be plenty of pictures!
Phone charger, chapstick, warm socks, and stretchy pants, are on our top 10.
Typically the Cord Blood Kit is delivered to you, make sure this is with you and your “go” bag at all times. I always recommend a snack or two since you never know the quality of the food or if you’ll miss it while you’re sleeping soundly!
Don’t overpack! The average Surrogate is released in under 24hrs, provided delivery was smooth, so there is no reason for extra clothes. In fact, you can likely go home in what you wore in. Leggings in, leggings out! A loose T-shirt or sweater will be best. I’m sure you remember, but no need to pack fresh undies…they’ll give you the most glamorous gauzy pair!
What’s in my bag:
Ear plugs or Ear Buds
Chapstick
Lotion
Phone Charger
Granola Bars
Leggings and Loose Tee
Fuzzy Socks
Hair ties
Brush
Toiletries and basic makeup essentials
Massage tool for during labor
Facial Wipes
Cord Blood Kit