Building Families, Inc. joins Resolve, ASRM to Observe National Infertility Awareness Week

Building Families, Inc will observe National Infertility Awareness Week®, April 22 through April 28, joining millions of women and men fighting the disease of infertility, healthcare professionals, psychologists and other thought leaders to promote greater awareness about infertility.

This is the perfect time to let your lawmakers in Congress know that you support the Family Act to provide a federal tax credit to patients with out of pocket expenses related to IVF treatment.

Learn more about the Family Act Today!
http://www.resolve.org/get-involved/family-act-of-2011.html


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Resolve
http://www.resolve.org


http://www.asrm.org/

Big Checks Went Out Today!

A special thank you to our former Surrogate Moms who referred their wonderful friends to become a part of our Surrogacy Family!   Today was a bonus payday as 4 checks went out!!!

Keep your referrals coming ladies!!!!!!

You know what we are looking for as you have been doing a stellar job in referring incredible women to our Program.  Thank you, also, for your continued support and confidence in Building Families.  Here is a reminder of the referral program:

Want to earn extra money? Just refer your friends, neighbors and anyone else you think would be a good Surrogate Mom candidate. Once they pass Dr. Rad’s evaluation, we will mail you a check. Your first referral will earn you $200. Your second referral pays more; $250. And, that’s right, the third referral is $300!!

We are always in need of qualified Surrogate Mothers and who better to help us then our own Surrogate Mothers, past & present.

Here is the link to the online inquiry form, just in case you want to help her (or them!) get started:

http://www.buildingfamiliesinc.com/en/i-want-to-be-a-surrogate-mother/

Tell your Surrogate Mom referral to reference your name on the online inquiry form by clicking on “A Friend Referred Me” and then list your name in the box. And be sure we have your current information so we can send you that check!

If you have any questions about someone’s eligibility, please e-mail me, Tracy or Breann anytime at:

[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]

Thanks!!!

Carol Weathers, Director of Gestational Surrogacy Program Visiting Spain in July 2012

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE:

Carol Weathers, Director of Gestational Surrogacy Program Visiting Spain in July 2012

Lake Forest, California, United States – March 26, 2012

Carol Weathers, Program Director of Building Families, Inc., will be meeting with Couples interested in learning more about gestational surrogacy. These meetings will take place in July 2012 in various parts of Spain including Madrid, Barcelona & Valencia.

“We at Building Families are proud to have assisted hundreds of Couples achieve their dream of parenthood. It is unfortunate that many Couples must leave their home town or country to seek the assistance of a Surrogate Mother, so we are super sensitive to their great leap of faith in us. We are acutely aware that this process is costly, financially and emotionally, so we support the Couple and their Surrogate Mother with the highest level of attention throughout their entire surrogacy process,” stated Carol Weathers.

Building Families, Inc. celebrated 20 years of Surrogacy success last year, having helped over 400 babies reach the loving arms of their parents. In addition, Building Families, Inc., takes pride in acknowledging that their efforts to help build families has been well received in the Lesbian & Gay communities throughout the United States and Europe.

For more information about this trip and specific locations, please visit these links:
English: www.buildingfamiliesinc.com/spain-2012
Spanish: www.buildingfamiliesinc.com/espana-2012

Mission Statement:

Building Families, Inc. is a comprehensive Gestational Surrogacy Program based in Southern California. We offer the highest level of personal attention to the Intended Parents and the Surrogate Mothers.

Building Families, Inc. realizes that the relationship in every surrogacy arrangement is unique. Therefore, we have made it our mission to perfect the option of building families through surrogacy by promoting a comprehensive and integrated program for the Surrogate Mother and the Intended Parents. This is accomplished by the high level of personal attention given to each case by the Program Director and her experienced professional team throughout the entire legal, medical and emotional process.

Building Families, Inc. has never experienced any legal or psychological impediment from any Surrogacy Arrangement, domestically or internationally.

Contact Information:

Building Families, Inc., P.O. Box 1138, Lake Forest, CA 92609
[email protected]
001-949-588-6015

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Rosie’s Surrogacy Story

One, Then Two!

Rosie delivered a beautiful baby girl for an international Couple in early 2009 and decided she wasn’t done helping in this tremendous way. So, on January 2012 she delivered healthy twins for another international Couple. This new baby girl and baby boy weighing 5lbs 11oz and 5lbs 9oz were welcomed by their parents. It is good thing that Rosie has decided to retire, as carrying triplets may have been in her future!

Elaina’s Surrogacy Story

There are moments in most experiences that we consider the “highlights”.  These highlights are typically the ones we remember with great fondness and emotion.    When I asked the new Mommy & Daddy what was the highlight for them, besides the obvious gift that Elaina gave them…becoming parents, Dad didn’t hesitate to answer.  He said it was the moment Elaina called to say she was pregnant.  As he spoke about it, tears came to his eyes as he remembered that day.  He recalls being unable to speak to her.  He tried more than once to come to the phone to at least utter a small thank you, but he couldn’t do it.  His wife was crying too but was sharing that with Elaina as she too was crying tears of joy.  They never thought that words could have such an impact, but clearly they do!

This was not the only day Elaina made her Couple cry.  On January 9, 2012, there was not a dry eye in that hospital when Elaina brought not one but two babies to this deserving Couple.

LGTB Families 2nd European Meeting – April 28 to May 1, 2012

LGTB Families 2nd European Meeting – April 28 to May 1, 2012

The Second European Conference on LGBT Families want to share the situation of legal rights and inequality suffered by children of LGBT families in different countries across Europe. We work together with other organizations and governments to make progress on the rights of citizenship.We are expecting between 700 and 800 people from different European countries to attend the Conference. It is our intention to spread the achievements of social rights regarding LGBT people in our country.

Click here to learn more.

Sheena’s Surrogacy Story

Sheena gave birth to her Couple’s first son in April 2010 and said she was done having babies as she already had two of her own kids.  But when her Couple told her they wanted another child, she wanted to be the one to help them again.  So, Sheena came out of retirement and on December 13, 2011 she gave birth to another baby boy for her loving Couple and he arrived weighing 7lb 13oz.  We still have frozen embryos…….will this be the last story for them?  We’ll find out in a year or two!

NCHS Issues Data Brief on Increase in Twin Births

ASRM BULLETIN – Volume 14, Number 1 – January 4, 2012

The U.S. Center for Disease Control and Prevention’s National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS) released a data brief on the increase of twin births over the last three decades. Among the key findings reported by the NCHS:

  • In 2009, 1 in every 30 babies born in the United States was a twin, compared with 1 in every 53 babies in 1980.
  • The twin birth rate rose 76 percent from 1980 through 2009, from 18.9 to 33.3 per 1,000 births.
  • If the rate of twin births had not changed since 1980, approximately 865,000 fewer twins would have been born in the United States over the last three decades.
  • Over the three decades, twin birth rates rose by nearly 100 percent among women aged 35–39 and more than 200 percent among women aged 40 and over.
  • The older age of women at childbirth in 2009 compared with three decades earlier accounts for only about one-third of the rise in twinning over the 30 years. The remaining increase is assumed to be from an increase in the use of infertility treatments.

The report highlights the impact that the rise in the rate of twins has had on perinatal health and rates of preterm birth and low birthweight.

To view the data brief, go to: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db80.htm

I saw something else on his face, something new. It was hope.

I was speaking with an Intended Father recently while his wife was undergoing an egg retrieval. He was telling me about how they were able to spend some quality time with their Surrogate Mother, her husband and their children the last few days and they so enjoyed that time together.

He showed me picture after picture of their time together. He may not have realized it, but he was smiling bigger than I had seen since their arrival. And I saw something else on his face, something new. It was hope.

I saw it on both of their faces before the Intended Mom was taken back for her procedure. After showing me the 100 or so pictures, and I am not exaggerating, he leaned in and almost began to whisper his next words. It wasn’t as if anyone else in the waiting room was listening or could have understood us speaking a foreign language. But I leaned in too as I wanted to hear him.

He admitted that he thought that a big motivation for Surrogate Mothers was the money. But after spending so much time with his Surrogate Mother and seeing how complete her life is, he knew this was not the case. I asked him how much he thought the work his Surrogate Mom was doing was worth. He quickly answered, “There isn’t enough money in the world to pay her what she deserves!” I completely agreed, of course! But he was perplexed by something so he went on whispering as he began to describe the last day they had with their Surrogate Mom and how his thoughts constantly went to, “Why would this woman help us?”

He proceeded to tell me things like what a great mom she is to her several children and what a huge responsibility she has in caring for them. He described the loving relationship between her and her husband. And then he says, “I just can’t understand why she is offering to help in this way”. In the same voice he was using, I whispered to him, “You just told me the reasons.”

He sat back with a confused look on his face. I explained that she had everything she could have ever wanted, a wonderful marriage and children for them to love and cherish together. She knew that there were Couples out there who had achieved a happy marriage but couldn’t have the family they so desperately wanted. Not without the help of a Surrogate Mother.

He was quiet for a bit but then that smile came back on his face and if possible, it was even bigger.