For intended parents, the decision to move forward with a surrogate is both hopeful and vulnerable. They’re placing their trust—and often their only remaining embryos—in someone else’s care. That level of trust doesn’t come from a résumé; it comes from thorough, professional evaluation and thoughtful preparation.
Medical readiness is just the beginning. Intended parents want to know that the surrogate has had a detailed health review, understands the treatment protocol, and has the physical ability to carry a pregnancy safely. But equally important is her psychological preparedness—does she truly understand the demands of the journey, emotionally and relationally? Has she considered the commitments, boundaries, and potential “what ifs”?
Experienced agencies don’t rush this part. They ensure the surrogate’s motivations are clear, her support system is in place, and that she’s entering the process for the right reasons. When intended parents feel that these screenings have been done with care and depth—not just as formalities—they’re more at ease, knowing the foundation is solid.
That peace of mind allows the relationship to grow with confidence instead of caution.
