What Surrogates Need Most: Feeling Respected and Seen as an Individual

Surrogates step into this journey with both heart and purpose, and what they often want most is to be treated not as a vessel, but as a whole person. From initial inquiry to post-delivery support, the surrogate’s individuality—her family life, communication style, values, and emotional needs—should be acknowledged and honored.
When agencies lead with curiosity and care, rather than just screening and checklists, surrogates feel valued. They’re more likely to trust the process, to speak up when something feels off, and to invest emotionally in a match that feels reciprocal. Respect fosters loyalty, openness, and, most importantly, well-being.